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Surviving Modern Yoga Cult Dynamics, Charismatic Leaders, and What Survivors Can Teach Us【電子書籍】[ Matthew Remski ]

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<p>**Grounded in investigative research and real survivor stories, <em>Surviving Modern Yoga</em> uncovers the physical and sexual abuse perpetrated by Ashtanga yoga leader Pattabhi Joisーand reckons with the culture, structures, and mythos that enabled it.</p> <p>The revised edition of <em>Practice and All is Coming</em> from Conspirituality co-host Matthew Remski**</p> <p>Yoga culture sells well-meaning westerners the full package: physical health, good vibes, and spiritual growth. Here, investigative journalist Matthew Remski explores how cultic dynamics, institutional self-interest, and spiritualized indifference collude to obscure the truth: Harm happens in plain sight.</p> <p>Through in-depth interviews, insider analysis, and Remski’s own history with high-demand groups, <em><strong>Surviving Modern Yoga</strong></em> brings to light how we’re each susceptible to cult abuse and exploitation. He shows how, with the right kind of situational vulnerability and the wrong kind of guru, the ideas we hold close about ourselvesーlike <em>It wouldn’t happen to me</em> or <em>I’d speak up for victims</em>ーfail to protect us.</p> <p>Remski reckons with his own complicity in spiritual power dynamics, and shares how a process of disillusionment allowed him to recognize harm. He does the same for readers, peeling back the veneer of yoga marketing to reveal the abuse, assault, and silencing perpetrated against seekers who trusted Jois as a mentor, their <em>guruji</em>ーeven a father figure. Each survivor speaks in their own words, on their own terms, reclaiming agency against an insular, in-group culture that enabled a charismatic leader’s devastating harmーand positioned him as its only remedy.</p> <p><em><strong>Surviving Modern Yoga</strong></em> also includes practical tools to help readers:</p> <ul> <li>Understand how high-demand groups trap would-be targets</li> <li>Evaluate their own situational vulnerabilities</li> <li>Learn to listen for loaded, red-flag language</li> <li>Cultivate their literacy of cult tactics</li> </ul>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 3,120円

Something's Wrong With Us 1【電子書籍】[ Natsumi Ando ]

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<p>A spine-chilling and steamy romance between a Japanese sweets maker and the man who framed her mother for murder ー Something’s Wrong With Us is the dark, psychological, sexy shojo series readers have been waiting for!Following in her mother’s footsteps, Nao became a traditional Japanese sweets maker, and at 21, she’s about to take the industry by storm. With unparalleled artistry and a bright attitude, she gets an offer to work at a world-class confectionary company. But when she meets the young, handsome owner, she recognizes his cold stare… It’s none other than Tsubaki, her childhood friend and first crush-the same boy who stood over his father’s bloodied body 15 years ago, and framed Nao’s mother for the murder. As the only witness of that fateful night, Nao is eager to chase down the truth and confirm her suspicions. Since Tsubaki has no clue who she is, she seizes her chance to get close to him, but instead of finding any answers, she begins falling deeper for Tsubaki’s allure…</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 781円

Neon Genesis Evangelion, Vol. 7 (2nd Edition) as one of us, to know good and evil【電子書籍】[ Yoshiyuki Sadamoto ]

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<p>Shinji's breaking point has now come, and he resigns in fury, departing even as the mighty Angel Zeruel smashes towards NERV HQ. Kaji, who has put such doubts in his mind, may also be the only one who can convince Shinji to return, for his own, dark personal reasons...<br /><br /><em>Eva</em> Vol. 7 contains a Japanese sound FX glossary plus a special bonus essay on the intriguing Biblical references of Evangelion!</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 748円

Lift Us Up, Don't Push Us Out! Voices from the Front Lines of the Educational Justice Movement【電子書籍】[ Mark R. Warren ]

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<p><strong>Parents, young people, community organizers, and educators describe how they are fighting systemic racism in schools by building a new intersectional educational justice movement.</strong></p> <p>Illuminating the struggles and triumphs of the emerging educational justice movement, this anthology tells the stories of how black and brown parents, students, educators, and their allies are fighting back against systemic inequities and the mistreatment of children of color in low-income communities. It offers a social justice alternative to the corporate reform movement that seeks to privatize public education through expanding charter schools and voucher programs. To address the systemic racism in our education system and in the broader society, the contributors argue that what is needed is a movement led by those most affected by injustice--students of color and their parents--that builds alliances across sectors and with other social justice movements addressing immigration, LGBTQ rights, labor rights, and the school-to-prison pipeline.</p> <p>Representing a diverse range of social justice organizations from across the US, including the Chicago Teachers Union and the Genders and Sexualities Alliance Network, the essayists recount their journeys to movement building and offer practical organizing strategies and community-based alternatives to traditional education reform and privatization schemes. <em>Lift Us Up!</em> will outrage, inform, and mobilize parents, educators, and concerned citizens about what is wrong in American schools today and how activists are fighting for and achieving change.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 2,213円

The Evolution of Beauty How Darwin's Forgotten Theory of Mate Choice Shapes the Animal World - and Us【電子書籍】[ Richard O. Prum ]

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<p>**A FINALIST FOR THE PULITZER PRIZE</p> <p>NAMED A BEST BOOK OF THE YEAR BY <em>THE NEW YORK TIMES BOOK REVIEW</em>, <em>SMITHSONIAN,</em> AND <em>WALL STREET JOURNAL</em></p> <p>A major reimagining of how evolutionary forces work, revealing how mating preferencesーwhat Darwin termed "the taste for the beautiful"ーcreate the extraordinary range of ornament in the animal world.**</p> <p>In the great halls of science, dogma holds that Darwin's theory of natural selection explains every branch on the tree of life: which species thrive, which wither away to extinction, and what features each evolves. But can adaptation by natural selection really account for everything we see in nature?<br /> Yale University ornithologist Richard Prumーreviving Darwin's own viewsーthinks not. Deep in tropical jungles around the world are birds with a dizzying array of appearances and mating displays: Club-winged Manakins who sing with their wings, Great Argus Pheasants who dazzle prospective mates with a four-foot-wide cone of feathers covered in golden 3D spheres, Red-capped Manakins who moonwalk. In thirty years of fieldwork, Prum has seen numerous display traits that seem disconnected from, if not outright contrary to, selection for individual survival. To explain this, he dusts off Darwin's long-neglected theory of sexual selection in which the act of choosing a mate for purely aesthetic reasonsーfor the mere pleasure of itーis an independent engine of evolutionary change.<br /> Mate choice can drive ornamental traits from the constraints of adaptive evolution, allowing them to grow ever more elaborate. It also sets the stakes for sexual conflict, in which the sexual autonomy of the female evolves in response to male sexual control. Most crucially, this framework provides important insights into the evolution of human sexuality, particularly the ways in which female preferences have changed male bodies, and even maleness itself, through evolutionary time.<br /> <em>The Evolution of Beauty</em> presents a unique scientific vision for how nature's splendor contributes to a more complete understanding of evolution and of ourselves.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 1,370円

The Art of the Last of Us Part II【電子書籍】[ Naughty Dog ]

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<p><strong>Follow Ellie's profound and harrowing journey of vengeance through an exhaustive collection of original art and intimate creator commentary in the full-color hardcover volume: <em>The Art of The Last of Us Part II</em>.</strong></p> <p>Created in collaboration between Dark Horse Books and the developers at Naughty Dog, <em>The Art of The Last of Us Part II</em> offers extensive insights into the making of the long-awaited sequel to the award-winning <em>The Last of Us</em>.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 3,906円

My Friend Ben (US English Version) Read-Along Edition【電子書籍】[ Kathryn Macfarlane ]

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<p>There are lots of things Sam can do. There are lots of things his friend Ben can do too. And lots of things they can do together!</p> <p>Simple text and supportive full-color animations introduce emergent readers to friendship, inclusivity and language structures of ownership.</p> <p>Read-aloud narration in US English helps young learners extend their reading skills.</p> <p>Available in English (AU & US), French, Italian and Spanish.</p> <p>Note: this ebook is optimised for iPads but can be viewed on any device which supports ePub3 file formats.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 300円

Pure, White, and Deadly How Sugar Is Killing Us and What We Can Do to Stop It【電子書籍】[ John Yudkin ]

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<p><strong>More than 40 years before Gary Taubes published <em>The Case Against Sugar,</em> John Yudkin published his now-classic expos? on the dangers of sugarーreissued here with a new introduction by Robert H. Lustig, the bestselling author of <em>Fat Chance.</em></strong></p> <p>Scientist John Yudkin was the first to sound the alarm about the excess of sugar in the diet of modern Americans. His classic expos?, <em>Pure, White, and Deadly</em>, clearly and engagingly describes how sugar is damaging our bodies, why we eat so much of it, and what we can do to stop. He explores the ins and out of sugar, from the different typesーis brown sugar really better than white?ーto how it is hidden inside our everyday foods, and how it is harming our health.</p> <p>In 1972, Yudkin was mostly ignored by the health industry and media, but the events of the last forty years have proven him spectacularly right. Yudkin’s insights are even more important and relevant now, with today’s record levels of obesity, than when they were first published. Brought up-to-date by childhood obesity expert Dr. Robert H. Lustig, this emphatic treatise on the hidden dangers of sugar is essential reading for anyone concerned about their health, the health of their children, and the wellbeing of modern society.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 759円

Gasping for Air How Breathing Is Killing Us and What We Can Do about It【電子書籍】[ Kevin Glynn ]

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<p>Breathing is a continuous battle between our need for oxygen and forces in nature that attack our lungs. Three hundred thousand Americans will die of respiratory diseases this year. Gasping for Air is the dramatic story of how infections, toxins, carcinogens, and air pollution strike against one of our basic body functions. The book also describes how we come into the struggle with diseases like asthma, cystic fibrosis, and sleep apnea, which make us vulnerable to assaults on breathing from without and within.</p> <p>We have powerful weapons to defend breathing. Medical science, public health, engineering, and business, all play important roles in the effort to support breathing. Yet, Gasping for Air also reminds readers how breathing support has been at the eye of the storm in many ethical dilemmas of modern healthcare. Here, Kevin Glynn, an experienced pulmonologist and lifelong asthma sufferer tells stories about the third most common cause of premature deaths in the developed world, describes lethal forces in Nature (infections, genetic predispositions) and from human activities (dusty occupations, tobacco smoking, chemical toxins, drug overdoses) that threaten to suffocate us, and offers sage advice for how to prevent and address those threats and the damage they cause.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 2,963円

Eat Like The Animals What Nature Teaches Us About the Science of Healthy Eating【電子書籍】[ David Raubenheimer ]

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<p><strong>A <em>New Scientist</em> Best Book of 2020</strong><br /> Our evolutionary ancestors once possessed the ability to intuit what food their bodies needed, in what proportions, and ate the right things in the proper amountsーperfect nutritional harmony. From wild baboons to gooey slime molds, most every living organism instinctually knows how to balance their diets, except modern-day humans. When and why did we lose this ability, and how can we get it back?</p> <p>David Raubenheimer and Stephen Simpson reveal the answers to these questions in a gripping tale of evolutionary biology and nutritional science, based upon years of groundbreaking research. Their colorful scientific journey takes readers across the globe, from the foothills of Cape Town, to the deserts of Arizona, to a state-of-the-art research center in Sydney. Readers will encounter locusts, mice and even gorillas along the way as the scientists test their hypotheses on various members of the animal kingdom.</p> <p>This epic scientific adventure culminates in a unifying theory of nutrition that has profound implications for our current epidemic of metabolic diseases and obesity. Raubenheimer and Simpson ultimately offer useful advice to understand the unwanted side effects of fad diets, gain control over one's food environment, and see that delicious and healthy are integral parts of proper eating.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 2,000円

The Joy of Movement How exercise helps us find happiness, hope, connection, and courage【電子書籍】[ Kelly McGonigal PhD ]

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<p><strong>The bestselling author of <em>The Willpower Instinct</em> introduces a surprising science-based book that doesn't tell us why we <em>should</em> exercise but instead shows us how to fall in love with movement.</strong></p> <p>Exercise is health-enhancing and life-extending, yet many of us feel it's a chore. But, as Kelly McGonigal reveals, it doesn't have to be. Movement can and should be a source of joy.</p> <p>Through her trademark blend of science and storytelling, McGonigal draws on insights from neuroscience, psychology, anthropology, and evolutionary biology, as well as memoirs, ethnographies, and philosophers. She shows how movement is intertwined with some of the most basic human joys, including self-expression, social connection, and mastery--and why it is a powerful antidote to the modern epidemics of depression, anxiety, and loneliness.</p> <p>McGonigal tells the stories of people who have found fulfillment and belonging through running, walking, dancing, swimming, weightlifting, and more, with examples that span the globe, from Tanzania, where one of the last hunter-gatherer tribes on the planet live, to a dance class at Juilliard for people with Parkinson's disease, to the streets of London, where volunteers combine fitness and community service, to races in the remote wilderness, where athletes push the limits of what a human can endure. Along the way, McGonigal paints a portrait of human nature that highlights our capacity for hope, cooperation, and self-transcendence.</p> <p>The result is a revolutionary narrative that goes beyond familiar arguments in favor of exercise, to illustrate why movement is integral to both our happiness and our humanity. Readers will learn what they can do in their own lives and communities to harness the power of movement to create happiness, meaning, and connection.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 1,370円

Please Stop Helping Us How Liberals Make It Harder for Blacks to Succeed【電子書籍】[ Jason L. Riley ]

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<p>Why is it that so many efforts by liberals to lift the black underclass not only fail, but often harm the intended beneficiaries?</p> <p>In <em>Please Stop Helping Us</em>, Jason L. Riley examines how well-intentioned welfare programs are in fact holding black Americans back. Minimum-wage laws may lift earnings for people who are already employed, but they price a disproportionate number of blacks out of the labor force. Affirmative action in higher education is intended to address past discrimination, but the result is fewer black college graduates than would otherwise exist. And so it goes with everything from soft-on-crime laws, which make black neighborhoods more dangerous, to policies that limit school choice out of a mistaken belief that charter schools and voucher programs harm the traditional public schools that most low-income students attend.</p> <p>In theory these efforts are intended to help the poorーand poor minorities in particular. In practice they become massive barriers to moving forward.</p> <p><em>Please Stop Helping Us</em> lays bare these counterproductive results. People of goodwill want to see more black socioeconomic advancement, but in too many instances the current methods and approaches aren’t working. Acknowledging this is an important first step.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 1,409円

Fawning Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves ? and How to Find our Way Back【電子書籍】[ Ingrid Clayton ]

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<p><strong>AS FEATURED ON BBC WOMAN'S HOUR</strong></p> <p><strong>Fawning is the vital, newly-discovered topic in psychology. You've heard of fight, flight and freeze - but fawning might be the most common trauma response of all. Learn how to work through it and find freedom with the leading expert, Dr. Ingrid Clayton.</strong></p> <p>Do you avoid conflict?<br /> Do you tend to take the blame?<br /> Do you take care of others at the expense of yourself?<br /> Do you live in a state of hypervigilance?</p> <p>Fawning can present as being <em>more</em> of who someone is: smart, generous, successful, funny, or beautiful, while for others it's about being <em>less</em>: vocal, ethnic, creative, self-assured or boundaried. Fawning can be visible or invisible; it can manifest in our relationships to sex or money, or in the tendency to 'people-please'; but one thing remains constant: it is about finding safety in an unsafe world, often at our own expense.</p> <p>Fawning expert and clinical psychologist Dr. Ingrid Clayton is here to bring clarity and support. The first book by a practitioner with years of experience, <em>Fawning</em> will shine a light on this under-represented but crucial piece of the trauma puzzle. Drawing on twenty years of clinical psychology work, as well as a lifetime of insight as a recovering fawner herself, this groundbreaking book brings this emerging concept into the mainstream conversation. Readers will learn WHY we fawn, HOW to recognize the signs of fawning and WHAT we can do to successfully 'unfawn', using Clayton's invaluable tools and resources to find meaningful, reciprocal connections - and finally be ourselves.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 1,079円

The Madhouse Effect How Climate Change Denial Is Threatening Our Planet, Destroying Our Politics, and Driving Us Crazy【電子書籍】[ Michael Mann ]

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<p>The award-winning climate scientist Michael E. Mann and the Pulitzer Prize?winning political cartoonist Tom Toles have been on the front lines of the fight against climate denialism for most of their careers. They have witnessed the manipulation of the media by business and political interests and the unconscionable play to partisanship on issues that affect the well-being of billions. The lessons they have learned have been invaluable, inspiring this brilliant, colorful escape hatch from the madhouse of the climate wars.</p> <p><em>The Madhouse Effect</em> portrays the intellectual pretzels into which denialists must twist logic to explain away the clear evidence that human activity has changed Earth's climate. Toles's cartoons collapse counter-scientific strategies into their biased components, helping readers see how to best strike at these fallacies. Mann's expert skills at science communication aim to restore sanity to a debate that continues to rage against widely acknowledged scientific consensus. The synergy of these two climate science crusaders enlivens the gloom and doom of so many climate-themed booksーand may even convert die-hard doubters to the side of sound science.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 2,343円

Things No One Taught Us About Love The Sunday Times Bestseller. How to Build Healthy Relationships with Yourself and Others【電子書籍】[ Vex King ]

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<p>**The <em>Sunday Times</em> Bestseller</p> <p><em>Things No One Taught Us About Love</em> distils the ideas found in Vex King's <em>Closer to Love</em>, re-edited and presented in the warm, relatable style of his No. 1 bestseller <em>Good Vibes, Good Life.</em>**</p> <p><strong>This extraordinary book is for anyone looking to harness the power of the universe, and their own self-understanding, to manifest stronger, deeper relationships.</strong></p> <p>Bestselling author of <em>Good Vibes, Good Life</em>, Vex King is back with a life-changing guide to strengthening your relationships by learning to love yourself, and understanding the true nature of love.</p> <p>Many of us expect romantic love to solve our problems and validate our worth. This burden strains modern relationships. Partners become frustrated when unable to meet each other’s idealized and impossible demands. Broken dreams of a life-long romance can leave people feeling incomplete and hopping from one partner to another.</p> <p>It’s no wonder we struggle, given that society fails to teach us about the true nature of love. We’ve been misled into thinking love is external ? somewhere out there ? rather than a force within us.</p> <p>Vex King dismantles the myths and misconceptions surrounding love and relationships. Packed with personal stories, expert advice and inspirational messages, <em>Things No-one Taught Us About Love</em> will help you understand how you love, create healthy habits, set boundaries that work for you, and heal unprocessed emotion and trauma.</p> <p><strong>'A long-term relationship will die and be reborn a thousand times. It doesn’t matter how long you are with someone, but how willing you are to stay open to the new versions of them (and yourself) that are certain to arise' <em>?</em> Vex King</strong></p> <p><strong>'A must read if you are seeking to elevate your relationships and your life' ? Yung Pueblo, <em>New York Times</em> bestselling author of <em>Clarity & Connection</em> and <em>Lighter</em></strong></p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 1,921円

Us Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship【電子書籍】[ Terrence Real ]

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<p><strong><em>NEW YORK TIMES, WALL STREET JOURNAL,</em> AND <em>USA TODAY</em>BESTSELLER ? Stop working on yourself as an individual and start working on your relationship as a couple, with the help of the renowned family therapist and author of <em>The New Rules of Marriage</em></strong></p> <p><strong>“This book is a road map for all of us who seek true intimacy.”ーGWYNETH PALTROW, founder and CEO of goop</strong></p> <p><strong>ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR: <em>The Wall Street Journal</em></strong></p> <p>Not much is harder than figuring out how to love your partner in all their messy humannessーand there’s also not much that’s more important.</p> <p>At a time when toxic individualism is rending our society at every level, bestselling author and renowned marriage counselor Terrence Real sees how it poisons intimate relationships in his therapy practice, where he works with couples on the brink of disaster. The good news: Warmer, closer, more passionate relationships are possible if you have the right tools.</p> <p>In his transformative book <em>Us,</em> Real brilliantly observes how our winner-takes-all culture infiltrates families with devastating results: repetitive fights that go nowhere, or a distant relationship in which partners end up living “alone together.” With deft insight, humor, and charm, Real guides you to transform your relationship into one that’s based on compassion, collaboration, and closeness.</p> <p><em>Us</em> is a groundbreaking guide to a new science-backed skillsetーone that will allow you to get past your knee-jerk reactions and tap into your wiser, more collaborative self. With a novelist’s flair, Real shares the stories of couples whose relationships have been saved by these skills and pans out to the culture that reinforces our dysfunction. If you and your partner are backed into separate corners of “you” and “me,” this book will show the way back to “us.” With <em>Us,</em> your true relationship can begin.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 1,978円

The Gardener and the Carpenter What the New Science of Child Development Tells Us About the Relationship Between Parents and Children【電子書籍】[ Alison Gopnik ]

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<p><strong>The <em>Gardener and the Carpenter</em> shatters the myth of "good parenting" and illuminates the paradoxes of parenthood from a scientific perspective.</strong></p> <p>In the past thirty years, parenting has transformed into an obsessive, controlling, and goal-oriented labor intended to create a particular kind of child and adult. However, in The <em>Gardener and the Carpenter</em>, pioneering developmental psychologist and philosopher Alison Gopnik argues that this familiar twenty-first-century picture of parenting is profoundly wrongーand it's not just based on bad science, it's bad for kids and parents, too.</p> <p>Drawing on the study of human evolution and her own cutting-edge research into how children learn, Gopnik shows that although caring for children is profoundly important, it is not a matter of molding them to turn out a particular way. Children are designed to be messy and unpredictable, playful and imaginativeーand to be very different both from their parents and from each other. This book illuminates the science behind child development and offers a fresh perspective on parenting in the modern age.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 1,733円

自然教養:席捲歐美、破百萬熱議全新型態教養!汲取逾千年原民文化智慧,培育高情商、自動自發、抗壓性強的孩子 Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of R【電子書籍】

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<p>當全球父母都忙著向西方文化取經,卻忽視了原始文化所蘊藏的強大智慧。</p> <p>原來最?得借鏡的育兒之道,早已存在逾千年!</p> <p>擺?「不是大人掌權,就是小孩當家」的失衡?態,</p> <p>讓所有家長腦洞大開的新型態教養之道。</p> <p>跟著馬雅(Maya)、因努特(Inuit)、哈扎比人(Hadzabe)學教養,</p> <p>從此不用再打罵、責罰、當虎?虎媽,</p> <p>育兒也可以這麼輕鬆優雅!</p> <p>★ 美國Amazon兒童研究社會科學分類榜NO.1,逾八成讀者5星讚譽!</p> <p>★《紐約時報》、《出版者周刊》、《今日美國》暢銷書!</p> <p>★ 掀起全球熱議旋風,19國爭相搶譯!</p> <p>★ 進化生物學、心理學、神經科學領域實證支持。</p> <p>***</p> <p>2019年,麥克蓮・杜克?夫所著的《因努伊特人如何教孩子控制脾氣》(How Inuit Parents Teach Kids To Control Their Anger)一文,於全國公共廣播電臺網站刊出後,激起廣大的迴響。家長們都在好奇,為何這些來自世界各地的古老社群,可以輕輕鬆鬆就教出自律、高情商、自發助人的孩子。</p> <p>身為專業科學線記者,以及為教養所苦的新手媽媽麥克蓮,帶著自己三?大的女兒,深入南美、非洲和阿拉斯加等地,觀察當地住民的管教方式,並且親身實驗這些育兒方式,這才發現──主流的西方教養觀念根本行不通!在這些古老住民獨特的管教技巧下,女兒變得更為?事,麥克蓮也放下了對教養的焦慮,進而有效改善自己的親子關係。</p> <p>?將自己的訪談與研究集結成此書,替所有苦於育兒的父母開?一條康莊大道:</p> <p>? 顛覆過時且似是而非的主流教養觀念</p> <p>.現代提倡的許多育兒建議,最初目的只是為了將嬰兒照顧標準化,包括?食時間、睡覺時間……然而這些建議大多違反生物自然。</p> <p>.大環境造成的不安感,讓父母覺得自己有義務把握?個教導孩子的機會,讓父母過於緊繃和心累。</p> <p>.為了建立孩子的自尊,父母總是盡其所能地讚美、鼓勵、表揚孩子,卻間接削弱了孩子自發與自我肯定的能力。</p> <p>? 採集?狩獵等原始文化的獨門教養??</p> <p>.父母從不阻止孩子?忙,即便他們做得一團亂。</p> <p>.父母不會勉強自己參與「專為孩子打造」的活動(例如「扮家家酒」),而是盡可能讓孩子參與成年人的活動。</p> <p>.屏棄「獎」或「懲」的極端教養方式,專注於激發孩子想要融入家庭或團體的?望,透過「成就感」和「歸屬感」讓孩子自動自發地做事。</p> <p>.因紐特人以高情商著稱,他們知道情緒的傳染力,因此會著重於安頓自己的心情來影響孩子,而非逼迫?鬧的孩子安靜下來。</p> <p>.因紐特媽媽具備兩大重要教養能力──?故事和演戲,能?快速安撫孩子情緒。</p> <p>.哈扎比人的孩子有自信、抗壓性強,因為他們放手讓孩子自由探索世界,從小就學習如何和「危險」相處,由此建立起強大的自信與自立技能。</p> <p>? 這些古老文化的育兒智慧,是否真能適用於現代社會?</p> <p>有感於讀者?畢此書後,仍會對原民文化的教養方式有所存疑:身處摩登世界的我們,真的適合書中提到的教養方式??作者在本書最後提出改良後的解決之道,把握團結、激勵、自主、不干?四大原則,將原民智慧巧妙地融入現代的教養方式。</p> <p>***</p> <p>各界好評</p> <p>本書充滿慧詰的點子,讓我想要立刻拿我的孩子來試驗看看。</p> <p>真希望我在制定家務分工表之前就看過這本書。</p> <p>ー潘蜜拉.徳古曼/《紐約時報》書評</p> <p>一本深入的分析,回溯到幾千年前被忽略的育兒技巧,</p> <p>致力於?的觀察對象。</p> <p>ー《大西洋》</p> <p>一本生動的旅遊紀事,作者帶著三?的女兒蘿西走訪了世界各個角落,</p> <p>尋找育兒的技巧……杜克?夫提供父母許多實用且可管理的技巧,</p> <p>最後一章更總結了許多額外的資訊。</p> <p>家長們會被作者的好奇心所感染,同時深受鼓舞。</p> <p>ー《出版者周刊》</p> <p>本書充滿許多實際可行的資訊,</p> <p>可以?助家長們應付?日的育兒挑戰。</p> <p>ー傑米.赫頓/Book Riot書評</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 1,777円

Neon Genesis Evangelion, Vol. 8 come now, let us make covenant, you and I【電子書籍】[ Yoshiyuki Sadamoto ]

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<p>As a disembodied Shinji drifts in visions, merged with the esoteric fluids of the Evangelion, his father's long-serving lieutenant, Fuyutsuki, is kidnapped for interrogation by SEELE--in German, the "Soul"--the council of superiors whom NERV has been double-crossing for some time now...<br /><br /><em>Eva</em> Vol. 8 contains a Japanese sound FX glossary plus a special bonus guide to help U.S. fans discover the best of the many import books available on <strong><em>Evangelion</em></strong>!</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 748円

The Promised Neverland, Vol. 18 Never Be Alone【電子書籍】[ Kaiu Shirai ]

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<p>Emma and Ray race to the queen’s chamber to stop Norman’s plan, but are they too late? What has propelled Norman to take such a brutal path, and is it something that will forever change his relationship with his closest friends?</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 748円

學術人 Homo Academicus【電子書籍】[ 皮耶.布赫迪厄 ]

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<p><strong>一本「要燒掉的書」****?</strong></p> <p><strong>一本震驚法國學界的書!</strong></p> <p>社會學家布赫迪厄**(**<strong>Pierre Bourdieu</strong>)嚴謹而?利的自我審視,</p> <p>具體分析出身背景與人脈資源對於學術地位的影響。</p> <p>《學術人》(<em>Homo Academicus</em>)是已故法國知名社會學者--皮耶.布赫迪厄(Pierre Bourdieu)在一九八四年出版的暢銷著作,震動當時的法國學界,在他寫作這本書之前,並沒有人勇於自我挑戰,具體檢視學界,也就是學者自身所處場域。</p> <p>布赫迪厄透過分析醫學院、法學院、文學院以及自然科學學院四大學術領域,其組成成員的社會背景及他們在人脈網絡中的角色,他們的實際活動情況與所能取得的權力地位,進而直剖法國高等教育長久以來的問題。藉由檢視法國數十年來的高等教育問題,看出一九六八年五月的高等教育危機如何發生,及其後學界如何變化。</p> <p>布赫迪厄在書中所談的問題,雖然時空背景與今不同,但其中人的出身與隱形資源造就將來社會位置的差異,以及人們對於醫學院、法學院、文學院以及自然科學學院四大領域所能帶來的身?地位象?,這類的問題直到今日仍非常相似,也使《學術人》於今仍具有高度參考性,不僅是一本重要的社會學研究著作,更是理解當代社會階級問題與高等教育僵化情況不能錯過的重要著作。</p> <p><strong>作者簡介</strong></p> <p><strong>皮耶</strong>**.<strong><strong>布赫迪厄(Pierre Bourdieu , 1930-2002</strong></strong>)****:**</p> <p>  法國二十世紀最具影響力的社會學家、人類學家、哲學家及公共知識?子,英國《衛報》評價他為可與<a href="zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E7%B1%B3%E6%AD%87%E5%B0%94%C2%B7%E7%A6%8F%E6%9F%AF">米歇爾・福柯</a>、<a href="zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E7%BD%97%E5%85%B0%C2%B7%E5%B7%B4%E7%89%B9">羅蘭・巴特</a>、<a href="zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E9%9B%85%E5%90%84%C2%B7%E6%8B%89%E5%86%88">雅各・拉岡</a>等人齊名的思想家。出身於南法小城,巴黎高等師範學院(?cole normale sup?rieure (ENS))畢業,服役期間曾到阿爾及爾大學教授哲學,此時的著作《阿爾及利亞社會學》已奠定他的重要性,回到法國後陸續任職索邦大學、高等研究實用學院等,一九八一年接掌法蘭西公學院(Coll?ge de France)社會學主任。曾出任午夜出版社(Editions de Minuit)「常識」(Le Sens commun)系列的主編,他的個人著作許多都在此系列中出版,也擔任《社會科學的研究行動》(<em>Actes de la Recherche en Sciences Sociales</em>)總編輯直到辭世。</p> <p>布赫迪厄著有深具影響力的重要著作數十部及論文數百篇,包括《秀異:品味判斷的社會批判》、《國家貴族》、《繼承者》、《藝術的法則》、《世界的苦難》、《布赫迪厄論電視》、《防火牆》、《實作理論綱要》、《所述之言:布赫迪厄反思社會學文集》等。他的著作當,《秀異:品味判斷的社會批判》被國際社會學協會評選為二十世紀社會學最重要的十部社會學經典之一。</p> <p><strong>譯者簡介</strong></p> <p><strong>李?洳</strong></p> <p>畢業於台灣國立中央大學法文系,巴黎第十大學社會學博士候選人。自由譯者。著有《二十世紀法國情慾文學。從限制出版到自由出版》,譯有《什麼是政治行動》、《什麼是世界觀》、《什麼是暴力》、展覽目?《夢迴亞洲》(在瑞士展出)等等,合譯有《波娃戀人》、《藝術的法則》。</p> <p><strong>審稿/林錚</strong>**:**</p> <p>法國社會科學高等研究院?史?文明所博士,比利時魯?大學社會所、輔仁大學社會系畢。現任職佛光大學社會學?社工學系副教授。</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 1,657円

Deadpool Vol. 6: I Rule, You Suck【電子書籍】[ Daniel Way ]

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Collects Deadpool #27-31. When Dr. Bong clones Steve Rogers' clandestine team of heroes to steal weapons of mass destruction, Wade must fight alongside the real Secret Avengers against the fake Secret Avengers and try to not to shoot the wrong guy! Plus: Deadpool gets hired by a bunch of good Draculas to fight some bad Draculas and no, they don't sparkle!画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 1,172円

Spider-Man Homecoming - The Art Of The Movie【電子書籍】[ Eleni Roussos ]

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<p>Fresh off the heels of his first adventure with the Avengers in Marvel Studios' Captain America: Civil War, Peter Parker is back in action! With a mentor like Tony Stark - a.k.a. Iron Man - it looks like Spider-Man's about to hit the big time. But New York's newest villain has other plans. Go behind the scenes in this new keepsake volume continuing Marvel's popular ART OF collection! Discover exclusive concept art, production stills and commentary from cast and crew as Marvel Studios and Sony team up to bring Spider-Man into the ever-expanding Marvel Cinematic Universe!</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 1,953円

A Handbook of Invalid Cooking For the Use of Nuand Others Who Care for the Sick【電子書籍】[ Mary A. Boland ]

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<p>In preparing the following pages for publication, it has been my object to present a collection of recipes and lessons on food, for the use of nurses. The idea was suggested by the need of such a book in the training-school of the Johns Hopkins Hospital. It is hoped that it will be found useful in other hospitals and schools where the teaching of the subject of food is receiving attention, and also to those who care for their own sick and invalid ones at home. Part Iーthe explanatory lessonsーincludes general remarks on chemistry, lessons on the properties of the different classes of foods, and special articles on Air, Water, Milk, Digestion and Nutrition. Part II consists of recipes, menus of liquid, light, and convalescent's diet, and articles on Serving, Feeding of Children, and District Nursing. In arranging the explanatory lessons, information has been drawn from many sources, but particularly from the works of Atwater and Parkes. It is the intention that these lessons be studied in connection with the practical work; they contain matter suggestive of that which it is necessary to understand in order that something may be known of the complex changes which take place in food in the various processes of cooking. The recipes have been carefully chosen and perfected, some having been changed many times before final adoption. In most of them the quantities are small,ーsuch amounts as would be required for one person,ーbut by[iv] multiplying or dividing the formul? any quantity may be made, with uniform results. Detailed descriptions have been given in order that those who know nothing of cooking may be able, by intelligently following the instructions, to make acceptable dishes. Repetition and similarity of arrangement will, it is hoped, serve to impress upon the mind certain points and principles. In some instances the recipes are original, but for the most part the ideas have been gathered from lessons and lectures on cooking, and from standard books, among them Mrs.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 200円

The Five Ways We Grieve Finding Your Personal Path to Healing after the Loss of a Loved One【電子書籍】[ Susan A. Berger ]

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<p>In this new approach to understanding the impact of grief, Susan A. Berger goes beyond the commonly held theories of stages of grief with a new typology for self-awareness and personal growth*.* She offers practical advice for healing from a major loss in this presentation of five basic ways, or types, of grieving. These five types describe how different people respond to a major loss. The types are:</p> <p>? <em>Nomads</em>, who have not yet resolved their grief and don’t often understand how their loss has affected their lives<br /> ? <em>Memorialists</em>, who are committed to preserving the memory of their loved ones by creating concrete memorials and rituals to honor them<br /> ? <em>Normalizers</em>, who are committed to re-creating a sense of family and community<br /> ? <em>Activists</em>, who focus on helping other people who are dealing with the same disease or issues that caused their loved one’s death<br /> ? <em>Seekers</em>, who adopt religious, philosophical, or spiritual beliefs to create meaning in their lives</p> <p>Drawing on research results and anecdotes from working with the bereaved over the past ten years, Berger examines how a person’s worldview is affected after a major loss. According to her findings, people experience significant changes in their sense of mortality, their values and priorities, their perception of and orientation toward time, and the manner in which they "fit" in society. The five types of grieving, she finds, reflect the choices people make in their efforts to adapt to dramatic life changes.</p> <p>By identifying with one of the types, readers who have suffered a recent lossーor whose lives have been shaped by an early lossーfind ways of understanding the impact of the loss and of living more fully.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 3,125円

Mothers United An Immigrant Struggle for Socially Just Education【電子書籍】[ Andrea Dyrness ]

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<p>In urban American school systems, the children of recent immigrants and low-income parents of color disproportionately suffer from overcrowded classrooms, lack of access to educational resources, and underqualified teachers. The challenges posed by these problems demand creative solutions that must often begin with parental intervention. But how can parents without college educations, American citizenship, English literacy skills, or economic stability organize to initiate change on behalf of their children and their community?</p> <p>In <em>Mothers United</em>, Andrea Dyrness chronicles the experiences of five Latina immigrant mothers in Oakland, Californiaーone of the most troubled urban school districts in the countryーas they become informed and engaged advocates for their children’s education. These women, who called themselves “Madres Unidas” (“Mothers United”), joined a neighborhood group of teachers and parents to plan a new, small, and autonomous neighborhood-based school to replace the overcrowded Whitman School. Collaborating with the author, among others, to conduct interviews and focus groups with teachers, parents, and students, these mothers moved from isolation and marginality to take on unfamiliar roles as researchers and community activists while facing resistance from within the local school district.</p> <p><em>Mothers United</em> illuminates the mothers’ journey to create their own spaceーcentered around the kitchen tableーthat enhanced their capacity to improve their children’s lives. At the same time, Dyrness critiques how community organizers, teachers, and educational policy makers, despite their democratic rhetoric, repeatedly asserted their right as “experts,” reproducing the injustice they hoped to overcome. A powerful, inspiring story about self-learning, consciousness-raising, and empowerment, Mothers United offers important lessons for school reform movements everywhere.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 2,990円

How To Pray Like Jesus【電子書籍】[ John Lowstreet ]

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<p>Those who listen to children pray know that God must also enjoy hearing young prayers. The objective of this little book is to encourage anyone to pray, but especially the young. Even a very young child can enter into deep communion with God. Once we are certain that we are accepted in heaven, our appetite for praying can only increase. There is nothing that can reassure us about our Heavenly Father's love for us more than an answered prayer. While Christ died for everyone, we each still need to know that He loves us as an individual. May your child find his or her way to a satisfying relationship with God the Father, His Son Jesus Christ, and The Holy Spirit.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 200円

The Best Nacho Recipes for a Spicy and Tasty Snack A Collection of Delicious Nacho Recipes【電子書籍】[ Anita Norris ]

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<p>Are you ready to take your snacking game to the next level? Look no further than "The Best Nacho Recipes for a Spicy and Tasty Snack: A Collection of Delicious Nacho Recipes." This mouthwatering cookbook is packed with a variety of irresistible nacho recipes that will satisfy your cravings and leave you wanting more.</p> <p>From classic cheesy nachos to bold and spicy creations, this book has it all. Each recipe is carefully crafted to bring out the perfect balance of flavors, ensuring that every bite is a burst of deliciousness. Whether you're hosting a game night, throwing a party, or simply looking for a quick and satisfying snack, these nacho recipes are guaranteed to impress.</p> <p>But this book is more than just a collection of recipes. It's a guide to creating the ultimate nacho experience. You'll find tips and tricks for achieving the perfect crunch, melting cheese, and layering flavors. With easy-to-follow instructions and accessible ingredients, even novice cooks can whip up these delectable nachos in no time.</p> <p>So, get ready to tantalize your taste buds and spice up your snacking routine. "The Best Nacho Recipes for a Spicy and Tasty Snack" is your go-to resource for all things nacho. Whether you prefer a classic combination or crave something more adventurous, this book has the perfect recipe to satisfy your nacho cravings. Get ready to indulge in a world of cheesy, spicy, and utterly delicious nachos like never before.</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 487円

The Invincible Little Lady: Volume 3【電子書籍】[ Chatsufusa ]

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<p>At the invitation of the demon princess Emilia, Mary and her friends go on vacation to the demon homeland, the Dark Isle. But rather than the evil hellscape of fire and brimstone Mary was expecting, she’s greeted by a southern paradise of sandy white shores and sparkling blue seas! Although Mary is excited for her first vacation abroad in both her lifetimes, fickle fate has other plans for her time off. How will the Invincible Little Lady unravel all the political machinations that threaten her and her friends’ seaside relaxation?!</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 1,301円

大腦依戀障礙(二版):為何我們總用錯的方法,愛著對的人? Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conf【電子書籍】[ 史丹・塔特金(Stan Tatkin) ]

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<p><strong>腦科學研究發現,源自童年的依戀形式可以改變</strong></p> <p><strong>而且?久彌新的愛情,有法則可以依循!</strong></p> <p>TED演講觀看次數超過188萬!「生物心理學派伴侶諮商」(PACT)創始人</p> <p>Amazon評價4.6顆星,婚姻諮商專家推薦</p> <p>修復依戀障礙的10個祕訣,活化親密關係的27個練習</p> <p>大腦,讓一個人怦然心動,也讓兩個人難以相處。</p> <p>人能否擁有幸福的關係,關鍵在於大腦的依戀形式。</p> <p>了解伴侶的愛情腦與依戀形式,才能建立長久信任的親密關係</p> <p>跨越?心的陰影,避免誤觸安全感的地雷</p> <p>從不安全依附到安全依附,不再相愛容易相處難!</p> <p><strong>三種大腦依戀形式類型</strong></p> <p>1.錨定型</p> <p>依戀形式:安全型依附(童年時有許多被父母保護、擁抱、親吻的記憶)。</p> <p>行為特?:不論獨處或與人共處,都可以很自在的享受其中。</p> <p>2.孤島型</p> <p>依戀形式:逃避型依附(童年缺乏家庭的?暖與正向的情感經驗)。</p> <p>行為特?:喜歡獨處,不必伴侶費心伺候,善於把自己照顧好。</p> <p>深層恐懼:害怕被批評責怪,或被要求無力付出的事物。</p> <p>3.浪潮型</p> <p>依戀形式:矛盾型依附(艱辛的童年使他認定對方會拒?他、離開他)。</p> <p>行為特?:在關係中容易失去自我,費心討好,需索伴侶的關注。</p> <p>深層恐懼:害怕自己成為負擔累贅,而被伴侶?棄。</p> <p><strong>大腦依戀障礙的10****個修復祕訣</strong></p> <p>・創造?們的「伴侶圈圈」,將雙方的人身安全與?在安全感視為首務</p> <p>・按照對方的需要,而非單憑自己的想法去滿足對方</p> <p>・認識?和伴侶大腦中的「?在原始人」(人類求存本能)</p> <p>・覺察?們之間的關係模式:是錨定型、孤島型、或浪潮型?</p> <p>・熟知伴侶最脆弱之處,並?得如何彼此取悦、互相安撫</p> <p>・對忙碌的伴侶,更要善用就寢前與起床時的陪伴時光</p> <p>・「?永遠可以告訴我任何事情!」成為彼此最首要的諮詢者</p> <p>・不要去逃避介入關係的其他人或第三者</p> <p>・學會「健康的?架」這門學問,衝突是為了更深的連結</p> <p>・化干戈為玉帛:凝視對方的眼睛,這將中斷大腦的備戰?態</p> <p><strong>專業推薦</strong></p> <p>丁郁芙/臨床心理師</p> <p>??瑩/諮商心理師、愛心理創?人</p> <p>呂秋遠/律師</p> <p>林靜如/作家、律師娘</p> <p>海苔熊/愛情心理學作家</p> <p>?之盈/諮商心理師、作家、輔導老師</p> <p>蘇益賢/臨床心理師</p> <p>(以上依姓氏筆劃排列)</p> <p><strong>各界讚譽</strong></p> <p>「想知道『我的他/?』到底在想/?什麼??除了大唱『沒那麼簡單』之外,還有別的做法。透過本書,學習依附關係、安全感概念,還有一點關於大腦的小知識,??彼此、因愛相連將不再困難。」</p> <p>ーー蘇益賢,臨床心理師</p> <p>「如果?在一段親密關係裡感覺迷惘、失落或孤單,不要?延,即刻?讀這本書。?將從混亂失序與痛苦中,找到一條出路。這是引領?走出挫折與缺乏安全感的地圖。」</p> <p>ーー彼得.皮爾森(Peter Pearson)博士,婚姻諮商專家</p> <p>「?讀史丹.塔特金的書,會使?忍不住想要親臨現場,接受他的諮商輔導。帶領我們深入戰鬥力十足的人類大腦,在塹壕陣地之中,教?如何相愛,而非相戰。」</p> <p>ーー埃絲特.沛瑞爾(Esther Perel),家族與婚姻心理師</p> <p>「我很享受?讀這本書。在心理諮商的專業上,我從中學到許多可以派上用場的?容與實例,使我受益良多……?一間婚姻諮商圖書館,都該放一本。」</p> <p>ーー約翰.高特曼(John Gottman)博士,《信任的科學》(The Science of Trust)作者</p> <p>「史丹.塔特金以簡潔洗練的文字,使伴侶們明白,且樂於成為最了解彼此的專家。他建議伴侶們共築『伴侶圈圈』,在這個圈圈裡,?一個伴侶都是對方人生中最重要的人,同時也是伴侶一輩子可以倚靠的人。」</p> <p>ーー馬禮安.梭羅門(Marion F. Solomon)博士,《為自己活,也為別人活》(Narcissism and Intimacy)作者</p> <p><strong>作者/譯者簡介</strong></p> <p><strong>作者簡介</strong></p> <p><strong>史丹・塔特金</strong> <strong>博士(Stan Tatkin, PsyD</strong>**)**</p> <p>「生物心理學派伴侶諮商」(PACT)創始人。加州大學洛杉磯分校(UCLA)醫學院助理教授,安迪亞克大學(Antioch University)、加州路徳大學(California Lutheran University)心理學講師。在伍徳蘭山(Woodland Hills)擔任全美最大醫療集團ーー凱薩機構(Kaiser Permanente)的講師,負責指導與訓練住院醫師。目前與妻女定居於加州?拉巴薩斯(Calabasas)。</p> <p>個人網頁:stantatkin.com</p> <p>TED演講:「關係好難,為什麼?」(Relationships Are Hard, But Why?)</p> <p><strong>譯者簡介</strong></p> <p><strong>童貴珊</strong></p> <p>政治大學新聞系畢業,曾任職雜誌社資深撰述,目前為特約翻譯與自由文字工作者,譯有《我想對??愛的語言》、《控制型伴侶》、《為何?不敢自在做自己?:建立自尊的40堂課》、《成為自己的光》、《?家者》等書。</p> <p><strong>目次</strong></p> <p>推薦序:理想伴侶關係、婚姻契合的新視野</p> <p>前言:腦科學?助我們更相愛相親</p> <p>第一章 伴侶圈圈:如何維?彼此的外在與?在安全感?</p> <p>第二章 大腦的愛恨運作:如何維持愛情的興味?然?</p> <p>第三章 伴侶的愛情腦:他/?到底是怎麼想的?</p> <p>第四章 我最了解?:如何取悦與安撫?的伴侶?</p> <p>第五章 出發與抵達:善用起床與睡前儀式</p> <p>第六章 誰是?的第一選擇:如何互相效勞,隨時待命?</p> <p>第七章 保護伴侶圈圈:如何含括伴侶之外的人?</p> <p>第八章 健康的衝突:如何達到雙贏?</p> <p>第九章 凝視的力量:透過目光接觸來重燃愛火</p> <p>第十章 幸福的人生:好的伴侶關係讓?身體更健康</p> <p><strong>活化親密關係的27****個練習索引</strong></p> <p>練習1:?和伴侶有多親近?</p> <p>練習2:「伴侶圈圈」問題探測器</p> <p>練習3:發掘?的「?在原始人」</p> <p>練習4:覺察自己?話的聲調和語氣</p> <p>練習5:當「?在原始人」遇見「?在大使」</p> <p>練習6:回顧童年</p> <p>練習7:?或伴侶是「錨定型」??</p> <p>練習8:?或伴侶是「孤島型」??</p> <p>練習9:?或伴侶是「浪潮型」??</p> <p>練習10:?最介意的是什麼事?</p> <p>練習11:?的伴侶最介意的是什麼事?</p> <p>練習12:如何激勵?的伴侶?</p> <p>練習13:「來演我」的遊戲</p> <p>練習14:一週「?程與降落」的練習</p> <p>練習15:制定「歡迎回家」的儀式</p> <p>練習16:誰是?童年時尋求的諮詢者?</p> <p>練習17:不思考的回話練習</p> <p>練習18:標示?的守候網絡</p> <p>練習19:誰是?們的第三者?</p> <p>練習20:清楚明確的傳達訊息</p> <p>練習21:?出言不及義的廢話</p> <p>練習22:一起玩</p> <p>練習23:「來讀我」的遊戲</p> <p>練習24:感謝清單</p> <p>練習25:凝視彼此,由近而遠</p> <p>練習26:檢視壓力指數</p> <p>練習27:肢體的親密接觸</p>画面が切り替わりますので、しばらくお待ち下さい。 ※ご購入は、楽天kobo商品ページからお願いします。※切り替わらない場合は、こちら をクリックして下さい。 ※このページからは注文できません。 1,554円